How many times have you been in a situation where a woman you considered a “friend” has tried to throw you under the bus or even backstab you? I’m guessing at least once or twice in your life. There is nothing worse than a snake in the grass, or a “frenemy”. The worst kind of enemy is the kind that knows all your weak spots, and usually those are the “good” friends that go bad. I never understood why someone I cared so much for or trusted, would ever want to hurt me or embarrass me… until I got older. And the only reason I could think a person would do this , is out of envy. It’s sad because sometimes a woman needs the comforting female friend(s) to provide the emotional support that a man cannot, there is nothing like having good female friends to vent to.
My question is, does a person go into a friendship purposely playing the friend role just to get close enough to do the most damage, or does one slowly turn into a frenemy as time passes? I guess it has to depend on the woman. A woman may have no intention of trying to bring harm to you at first…but once they see you as a threat, it’s a wrap. Sometimes it is only BECAUSE a woman sees you as a threat that they may want to befriend you, if you can’t beat them, join them….then beat them later.
I have been in plenty situations where this has happened to me, and every time I see the obvious signs, I choose to ignore and give the person the benefit of the doubt. Honestly, I am never making that same mistake ever again, but that doesn’t mean I am saying to stop befriending women out of fear that they may betray you, no. All I am saying is that caution needs to take place, and be mindful of how comfortable you get with a person for they can use things against you.